I want to speak on perception. When you’re not self-aware, your perception can be skewed. When you are not emotionally balanced your perception can be skewed. So, you have to be able to do both of those; to have at least a 70% unbiased attitude or perception towards anything that you deal with; pick your battles, so to speak. Tough pill to swallow. But when you learn to be accountable for yourself, as you want to hold other people to be, then it kind of gets easier. Gets you in a humbled position; makes you reinvent yourself. A better you. Get through that pain and self-loathing caterpillar stage, to the new smooth moving, everything with a purpose butterfly. If you can answer why, then it can’t fly. I just made that up, but you feel me?!
You will shock yourself with your new-found peace and the new way you move knowing you are ok with what you can’t control. Hell, is it bothering you? Don’t tell me, ask yourself that! Ask yourself questions, so that you’re aware of yourself. Look in your mirror. The new one is the right one. The old unknowing, blame everyone else for everything is the wrong mirror. This right mirror will even challenged your relationships. It’s that deep. But doing the work is so rewarding. It’s cleansing. It’s resolving. It’s pure freedom.